What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. A lot of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The recipient is also present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are in fact out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about an established result
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the technique or the wanted series of rubbing that is essential, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is needed.
Tantric massages therefore often take a really surprising course. Everything fits into a larger whole. For example, a tantric massage does not constantly need to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the primary step in a terrific advancement.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limits
We understood it for a long time, of course, however given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits in advance
It is a misconception that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is also entirely okay (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation freely
Activating and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. Obviously, always with regard for (shared) boundaries. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ development/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented motion, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Usually resulting in a terrific physical, psychological well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is usually nice, often tasty. We, therefore, invite you to completely enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Of course, all massages have certain practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (targeted at recovery).
Relaxation is a fundamental part of tantric massage, but of a totally different order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are really extremely energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are very tired), you are extremely alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it various. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a type of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is a profession apart. Tantra massage definitely has healing results, but that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand apart:
Tantra massage ideas-- prior to you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, however also psychologically).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (pleasure noises?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) minutes.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Regard borders, set clear borders beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly extremely open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by this content step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and supply integration moments (just doing nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (sometimes completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or even vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery result. It is possible that clogs, psychological injuries concern the surface. There may be a psychological release, consisting of physical responses such as shaking, weeping, shocks. Although tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might end up being not only cheerful however even blissful. An ecstatic state of being is possible. The more you give up, the better you will feel.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Generally leading to a fantastic physical, mental wellness (of both).